
When I was a young person I had a very quick temper. No one at that period wanted to cross me because they knew anger would fly like fur in a cat fight. I had that quick temper until one day I prayed that God would take it from me. I have jokingly said that after that he made me a little slow on the uptake of recognizing insult until I was away from the situation and could listen to Him before I responded. If we allow feelings to be in charge we will always react wrongly.
1Thessalonians 5:15 (NIV) says: Make sure nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and everyone else.
Thanksgiving is two days away and we are going to be seeing a lot of people, some family, and some friends and acquaintances. People are going to talk and we are going to be listening. It can be wonderful or we can take things the wrong way (maybe even the way they were intended and just respond the wrong way) or we can do as the Word of God says and be kind.