
Observation - 99.9% of people do not want and will ultimately not take the advice or guidance they ask for. What they are really looking for is agreement and praise. Maybe, if each individual could be more honest about what they want, what they get would be less likely to be taken offensively.
It is also possible that many take their own opinion or advice as too valuable.
The interesting thing is that on the whole, advice given to others is usually not applied to ones self. For example: A gentleman gave one of my sons the advice, more than once, to write a business plan. Later, I heard the same man tell my other son that he (the man) often didn't have a plan, or when he did, didn't follow it.
The interesting thing is that on the whole, advice given to others is usually not applied to ones self. For example: A gentleman gave one of my sons the advice, more than once, to write a business plan. Later, I heard the same man tell my other son that he (the man) often didn't have a plan, or when he did, didn't follow it.
My Prayer - Lord, help me to be perceptive to what other people really want/need, regardless of what they say. Help me to contain myself from trying to help where my help is not wanted. Help me to encourage the way the person needs encouragement and not just be fulfilling my own needs. Help me to be honest with myself and with others about what I am seeking from them as well. Open my eyes, ears and heart Lord that I act as you would in every situation. In Jesus name I ask this. Amen.